HOW TO KISS A WOMAN:
STEP 1: DON’T WAIT FOR HER TO ASK
Don’t wait for her to bring up the subject, don’t wait for her to make the first move and don’t wait for her to close her eyes and pucker up before you take the initiative.
STEP 2: **RISK** LOOKING THE FOOL AND ACT WITH COURAGE
Don’t use alcohol, drowsiness, the darkness of a parked car, or a sneak attack while watching a movie.
Don’t steal your first kiss- you look right in her eyes, take a moment to project your intention deep into her soul and then pull her close and claim her with conviction.
STEP 3: JUST KISS HER
Prove to her you’re a man of purpose and courage.
Everything she needs to know about whether she can trust you with her entire body will be communicated in that first kiss.
If you’re not confident enough to kiss her like you mean it she will immediately wonder what else you’re insecure about - and she’s right.
A man who doesn’t have the courage to kiss a woman with conviction either doesn’t see her as having the potential to be ‘the one’, or he lacks a powerful connection to his core purpose. Either one is reason enough for a woman to distrust and reject him.
There is an option if you haven’t developed your “Kiss Me!” radar yet: You tell her, “I’m going to kiss you” as you pause two seconds and look into her soul before you claim her with your kiss.
(That gives her the opportunity to protest or dodge should your intuition be so grossly off that you still perceive a woman’s politeness for sexual invitation.)
Your job is to be paying attention to what she’s giving off, because should you miss or delay your reaction to her ‘Kiss me!’ signal, you will very likely miss out on not only that kiss, but the opportunity to every experience that follows.
Graham R White
a realm of romantic enchantment. a realm entered two by two where we live forever. the magical space of enchanted intimacy. a soulful love where our kisses have the power to transform us all.